// One Look Won’t Work//
Let’s face it, most of us are bad liars. We think that we can strongly convey an attitude by adjusting one, specific gesture. You’re not showing confidence if your chin is up but your shoulders are slouched.
A lot of times we try to impress people by displaying a false self. We act differently than we normal. And it shows.
Unless you are a good actor, your body gives off subtle signals when you aren’t acting genuinely, which confuse the people around you. Act natural, even if you don’t think your natural self is who people want to see.
If you are a shy person, that’s fine. People might find your shyness a bit endearing. An odd mix of conflicting signals will break rapport and trust.